Is he thinking of me? How people have always asked, and how I read it for you

Ivy holding up a card by candlelight

He was warm on Tuesday and distant by Friday. You have read the last message eleven times, shown it to your best friend, counted the hours between replies, and built three different stories out of one full stop. And underneath all the analysing sits one small question that you would give a great deal to have answered: is he thinking of me?

You are in very old company with that question. This letter tells you how people have asked it for centuries, how a thoughts and feelings reading works at my table, and what you can do tonight that will serve you better than reading that message a twelfth time.

Is he thinking of me, and can a reading tell?

A thoughts and feelings reading looks at the space between two people: the energy that moves when you are together, what seems to be felt and left unsaid on both sides, and where the two of you are out of step. What I sense on their side I offer as insight. What I see in you I can say with certainty, and that is usually where the answer was waiting.

Older than any of us

For as long as there have been hearts, there have been ways of asking them. Children still pull the petals off a daisy: he loves me, he loves me not. In Britain and Ireland, girls peeled an apple in one long ribbon and threw it over a shoulder, to read the first letter of a name in the shape it made on the floor. On the eve of Saint Agnes, in the cold of January, young women went to bed without supper in the hope of dreaming of the one who was thinking of them. Tea leaves, candle wax dropped into water, a ring on a thread: a hundred ways to ask the same question you are asking tonight.

What I love about all of them is what they did for the one who asked. They took the question out of her head, where it went round in circles, and put it somewhere she could look at it. That is still the first thing a good reading does.

How I read for you

For a Their Thoughts & Feelings Reading I read from what you share: your full name, your date of birth, their first name and your situation in your own words, including the moment that made you order. I take it in slowly before I write.

Your reading opens with what I feel from you: your own energy in this connection, what it is hoping for, what it is bracing for. Then your question, and what I see in the dynamic between you: what moves when you are together, what seems to be felt and not said on their side and on yours. Around that: what is moving in your situation, timing in universal terms, signs to watch for in how the connection behaves, and your step. It is in your inbox within the hour during my active hours, seven days a week, and afterwards I check in with you.

You choose the depth: Whisper, the heart of the dynamic, for €2.22. Revelation, both sides with timing and signs, for €5.55. Full Unveiling, everything plus the pattern underneath, for €11.11.

See it, feel it, draw it in

Here is what I believe, and what I work with every day. What you hold in your mind with feeling, you draw towards you, the way a magnet does. That is the heart of the law of attraction. And it means that the evenings you spend picturing his silence are evenings spent drawing more of it.

So tonight, put the phone in another room. Light a candle and pour a glass of water. Close your eyes and picture the kind of love you want as if it is already yours: someone who answers, who is glad to hear from you, who says the thing out loud. Feel how your body sits when you are sure of someone. Stay there for three slow breaths. Then say one sentence aloud, in the present tense: I am loved clearly, and I can tell. Drink the water.

Something shifts when you do this for a week. You stop waiting by the door of one person's mind, and you start walking towards a feeling. Whoever matches it, he or someone you have yet to meet, finds you there. Your own choices are the strongest force there is, and where you place your attention is the first of them.

What came back to my table

"She has an amazing ability to pick up on the emotions and dynamics surrounding a situation and explain everything in a way that gives you a much clearer understanding of what may be going on."

Naazgol, August 2026

"Always responsive always detailed and always follows up. I keep going back!"

Melissa, September 2026

"very accurate thanks for your reading she is also very compassionate. I recommend her services."

Christian, August 2026

I read every one of these twice, and I keep them all.

Which reading is mine?

If your question is about one person and what is moving between you, begin with Their Thoughts & Feelings. If you want the wider view of your love life, the Love Reading is half price beside it, applied automatically at checkout. And if you want all of it at once, the person, your love life and the one who is meant for you, Love Clarity brings three readings together at one price. Everything about reading what someone thinks and feels is together on one page.

Questions people ask me

Can you really tell what he is thinking?

I read the connection between you, and what I sense on his side I offer as insight. Nobody can open another person's mind like a book. What a reading can do is show you the dynamic clearly, including your own part in it, so that you know how to move.

Do you need his date of birth?

No. His first name and your own words about the situation are enough. Your full name and your date of birth are what I read from.

Does this work for a friend, an ex or someone I have only just met?

Yes. Any connection between two people has a dynamic that can be read: a new match, a friend who might be more, a partner of ten years. For an ex and a silence there is also the Ex & Silence Reading.

How fast will I have it?

Within the hour during my active hours, seven days a week. Orders placed while I am resting are first in line when I return.

What can I expect?

A reading written for you alone, with care, and afterwards I check in with you. I promise no outcome: this is spiritual guidance, offered for entertainment purposes, alongside good advice and never instead of it. What I give you is a steadier view than either of you can manage from inside it.

Go gently with yourself tonight. You are easier to love than this waiting has made you feel.

Ivy