Your first name, or both your names
The two of you, and the moment
Your first name and theirs, when and where you plan to ask, and what you wish for the moment
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Small additions, held at the same table.
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What people tell me afterwards
We got married on September 5th and the weather was forecast rain on the run up to the wedding. This was deeply upsetting for us and it would ruin all our plans for the day. However Ivy came to our rescue and bought us sunshine ☀️. Ivy mentioned in our ritual to look out for feathers. Well I lost my grandparents a few years back and while we were having...
Emma · Marriage Blessing · Etsy, 8 September 2026I absolutely recommend getting a reading from Ivy!!! She is genuine, personable, and so detailed. Her reading gave me much needed peace of mind and sense of calm before my wedding, which turned out to be the best weekend I could have ever hoped for or imagined!! It was so amazing, I ended up purchasing another reading for my close friend who got married the weekend after me, and Ivy...
Kathryn · Good Weather Ritual · Etsy, 3 September 2026I don't know what I expected but immediately loved what I received, a thoughtful and calming message and unbelievably the weather was perfect despite the forecast! (Umbrellas were left at the ceremony)
Florence · Good Weather Ritual · Etsy, 4 September 2026Read all 311 reviews · 5.0 on Etsy, more than 2,000 happy customers.
For the question you are about to ask: the moment, the place, the ring in your pocket, and the words. Held at my table the same day, with a written report to read before you go.
For the weeks when the ring is hidden in a sock drawer and you have rehearsed the sentence a hundred times. Tell me the two of you, when and where you plan to ask, and what you wish for the moment, and I bless it at my table: your courage, your words, the place, and the two of you in it. Not the answer, which is theirs to give, but the moment, which is yours to make.
Delivery
Held at my table and in your inbox the same day, seven days a week, during my active hours. Orders placed while I am resting are first in line when I return. Your report waits for you in your inbox, in the language you choose.
What happens at my table
There are few moments as full as the one right before a proposal: the ring in your pocket, the place you chose, the words you have practised and will probably forget. I love holding this moment, because it is pure hope.
Your name and theirs go on paper with the date and the place of the asking, turned towards each other, with two candles side by side, rose quartz between them and a few rose petals for the heart. I speak the blessing aloud in the present tense: this question asked clearly and from the heart, in a moment that feels like the two of you. I stay with it until the moment feels like yours, and I watch the two flames while I do.
Your report tells you what I felt around the two of you and what I worked with, and gives you one sentence to keep in your pocket beside the ring.
What I hold
The ring goes on the fourth finger because the Romans believed a vein ran from there straight to the heart. In Ireland the Claddagh shows two hands holding a heart, and the way it is worn tells the world what the wearer is ready for. Every custom around a proposal is a way of steadying the one who asks. The old ways knew what the law of attraction teaches: see the moment as you want it, feel the certainty in your chest as already there, and you walk into it steadier. I hold the moment with you; the question stays yours. More than 2,000 happy customers have sat at my table, and what people wrote afterwards is on this page.
What you receive
- A blessing report written for the two of you alone: what I felt around the two of you and your moment
- One sentence to keep in your pocket beside the ring
- A small practice for the hour before you ask
- I check in with you, and you can always reply to my e-mail: I read it and answer you
- Everything by e-mail, in English, German, Dutch, French or Spanish
One price, and what comes free with it
€7.77 for the blessing at my table and your written report. Free with every order: I check in with you, and my guide After Your Reading is yours to keep. Same-day delivery is included. Need it sooner? Priority holds it within three hours during my active hours. Either way, this is a personal blessing for your moment, held for you alone on the day you order, seven days a week.
Add-on and bundle
Add the Wedding Day Reading to this order and pay half, applied automatically at checkout: the two of you and the day ahead, read together. For a proposal under an open sky there is the Good Weather Spell for Your Event. And rose quartz is the stone of love and softness; it is in my jewellery collection.
Aftercare is not an extra
Work like this can shift your energy, sometimes noticeably in the days after. That is why I check in with you, and why my door stays open after that: you can always reply to my e-mail, and I read it and answer you myself. You should always leave my table with more strength, more energy and more clarity than you came with. If that is not the case, I want to hear it.
Questions
Can you make them say yes?
No, and I would not want to. Their answer belongs to them. What I bless is your moment: your courage, your words, the place, and the love you bring to it.
I do not know the date yet. Can I still order?
Yes. Write "soon" and the place, if you know it, and I hold the moment as it comes. Tell me the date by reply when it is set, and I keep it with your name.
Can it be a gift for a friend who is about to propose?
Yes. Write their first name and their partner's, and what you know of the plan. Your report arrives in your inbox to hand over.
What can I expect, honestly?
A blessing held with care on the day you order, and a report written for the two of you alone. Nothing is promised or guaranteed: this is spiritual guidance, offered for entertainment purposes, alongside good advice and never instead of it. Your own choices remain the strongest force.
A ritual to wear
Rose Quartz, to carry the intention with you
Rose quartz is the stone of love and softness, for the heart that is about to open.
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